Ada seorang sahabat saya yang baik menyuruh saya delete perkongsian cerita ini di Facebook kerana pakaian Angelina Jolie terlalu seksi dan mendedahkan. Tapi cerita ini mempunyai pengajaran yang bagus. Lalu saya abadikannya di sini 🙂 Terima kasih, Nadiah Azaman yang dirahmati Allah!
My wife got sick. She was constantly nervous because of problems at work, personal life, her failures and problems with children. She has lost 30 pounds and weighted about 90 pounds in her 35 years. She got very skinny, was constantly crying.
She was not happy woman. She had suffered from continuing headaches, heart pain and jammed nerves in her back and ribs. She did not sleep well, falling asleep only in the morning; got tired very quickly during the day. Our relationship was on the verge of break up.
Her beauty was leaving her somewhere, she had bags under her eyes, she was poking her head, and stopped take care of herself. She refused shoot the films and rejected any role. I lost hope and thought that we’ll get divorced soon…
But then I decided to act.
After all I’ve got the most beautiful woman on the earth. She is the ideal of more than half of men and women on earth, and I was the one allowed to fall asleep next to her and to hug her shoulders.
I began to pepper her with flowers, kisses and compliments. I surprised her and pleased every minute. I gave her lots of gifts and lived just for her. I spoke in public only about her. I incorporated all themes in her direction. I praised her in front of her own and our mutual friends.
You won’t believe, but she has blossomed. She became even better than before. She gained weight, was no longer nervous and she loved me even more than ever. I had no clue that she CAN love that much.
And then I realized one thing: a woman is the reflection of her man.
If you love her to the point of madness, she will become it. ~ Brad Pitt
Cerita ini lengkap, tanpa perlu saya ulas. Walau kadang-kadang kita tidak sedar, perhubungan bisa menggembirakan atau mengharu-birukan hidup kita. Kita boleh canang satu dunia betapa kita lahir seorang diri, tidak perlu pada manusia lain untuk bernafas. Tapi lain pula halnya dengan manusia yang kita sayang dan cinta; ibu bapa, ahli keluarga, kawan-kawan, pasangan hidup…
Perhubungan yang baik adalah apabila kita bersama dengan orang yang menerima kita seadanya, menghargai kekuatan dan melengkapi kelemahan diri kita sebagai individu. Tatkala perhubungan itu menyempurnakan, itulah perhubungan yang terbaik dan istimewa.
Namun jika dia cuba mengubah kita menjadi manusia lain, tinggalkanlah dia agar dia bisa cari “yang lain” itu. Ternyata kamu tidak sesuai bersama.
Senyum ya 🙂